When Pihu turned one, we were
joyous with the milestone. Like most parents. Pihu meanwhile couldn’t figure
what the big deal was. She was being pampered, given more attention than she
could handle, was randomly moved around among a splay of arms, embraces and
laps. Was smothered with kisses and cajoled into listening to random babytalk
by people all around. All she relished were the bits of cake she managed to lick
off my fingers and her first night out doing disco with her Dad on a
dancefloor.
She also mastered the art of
perching her little buns on a baby seat, wearing a napkin around her neck and
picking on her choice of finger food- slices of cucumber and tomatoes which she
daintily ate with little care of what the world was upto. All was well till we
realised that she was now going to need to stretch those legs very soon. And
get her hands dirty on everything she could pick, rub, mash, smash, crush,
break, press or touch. It all began with her crawling all over the floor and
taking an odd fascination for slippers and shoes which she loves to slip
her nimble hands into. Yeah, not something to be proud of. To her defence, she has also developed a
strange fascination for books, journals, magazines, any sort of reading
material. It doesn’t even have to have pictures. Nothing beats the glee of
having that crisp morning newspaper in hand, flipping through the pages and
discovering the happenings of the day. Discovery being the catch word here.
My little button-sized daughter
has begun to read already in her head. Before you start dismissing her as a
nerd by the way, let me warn you. She loves grooving to lively music as well. I
have also caught her smiling at some people on TV, almost as if she understands
what they say and finds it mildly amusing.
Her speech may be monosyllabic
and inarticulate to most but mind you, she has a mind of her own when it comes
to taking instructions or placing an opinion. A handful of expressions and
gestures are used time and again for more emphasis. Modulating her voice to
show distaste or indicate sleep, boredom or happiness is also something she is
mastering right now.
Do not mistake her curiosity to
know everything as a bait to lure her with something though. She will not go to
you just because you find her cute or call out to her. She likes to take her
time over approving her company. She may
smile at you and watch you from a distance, but don’t get too close for comfort
or cuddly, our little lady likes to keep a distance till she is sure she can trust
you.
Pihu loves dogs. She loves
lights. She loves the outdoors. And simply adores her Mom and Dad. She wants to
run before she can walk steadily and sing before she can talk coherently. Slow
down kid, we want to watch you grow without losing out on these precious days
of freedom, mirth and love without a care!
What a lovely phase of life
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