Wednesday, 17 February 2016

The Pihu Diary: Pitter Patter…and we all fall down!

Pihu is up and running about these days. She realises that this is the time of her life when she has to make up for all that time that she was subjected to lying on a bed for over 15 hours a day sleeping away to glory. So she is in a desperate hurry to discover all the things she was kept away from. No no, she isn’t exactly raiding my wardrobe yet to wear my clothes but more for throwing the contents of it around. Prohibited items and particularly soiled ones ignite newfound curiosity so that her dad’s shoes and the diaper bin are special items of discovery that pique her interest.

She has also developed  a sense of assertiveness and diligence which would be nice at the work place one day, but not when that is employed towards sitting down on a cold marble floor and pulling off her socks and shoes to run amok on naked feet.

There was a time when Pihu used to sleep through half a movie in a theatre and munch popcorn through the other half. Now she bawls the moment the lights are out and the Dolby stereo booms on her eardrums. Lesson learnt: No movies for her before she turns errr…3 may be?!

She has a sharp sense of like and dislike. So what she likes go in her toy box. What she doesn’t or has no more need for goes in to the waste paper bin. So much for being organised.

She also happens to have taken PM Modi’s Swacch Bharat Andolan very seriously. Charity after all begins at home, and the moment she can get her hands on a napkin or piece of rag, she starts dusting almost everything near at hand. From floors, walls, furniture, kitchen racks, refrigerator, closets…(you get the drift), no speck of dust escapes her eye so that by the end of it, there’s nothing left to wipe except her mouth which she does generously with the same cloth…if left unhindered.

She insists on helping us dress by instructing us on what to wear when from a pile of clothes. Another favourite chore is picking out clothes from the washing basket, selecting one to wear around her neck or pull over the head and walk with a stately gait.

Sitting under my work desk and grabbing my leg to count my toes is another of her pastimes. Hence to say Pihu keeps me on my toes these days would be no exaggeration.

Recently, she even locked me in the bathroom. It freaked me out because there was no one at home and all she could do was cry out from the outside as she couldn’t figure out how to unlatch it. It took some timely yelling for help through my bathroom window and a neighbour breaking in to my house through the back door that saved the day for us. Needless to say, Pihu is providing a lot of drama in my life.

Becoming a parent increasingly makes you vulnerable to the point that you don’t know how to protect your kid from every kind of danger. No matter how careful you are, there will always be that miniscule chance of a slip-up which is sure unnerving. It makes you feel really vulnerable to circumstances given the immense responsibility you bear for a tiny soul.

Pihu’s sheer brightness and that winning smile however reassures me that it is all worth it.







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